Nov 15, 2013

Busy, Busy, Busy

That is the only word I can think of to describe our life right now. There isn't time for much of anything beside the occasional shower, which is the only time I get to myself. Even bathroom breaks aren't private anymore. But, somehow, out of all the chaos, we have found small opportunities for some fun. A couple pictures of what we have been up to...
Jonathan is 5 months old!! I can't believe how big this kid is already! He is in the 95% for height and 75% for weight. He was, at his 4 month check up, almost 28 inches and almost 16 pounds! Can you imagine growing a whole 8 inches in 5 months!? Its a wonder he doesn't cry more. I remember having growing pains when I was younger and it was awful! But Jonathan is such a sweet tempered little boy. He smiles and giggles and has found his feet and is turning over all the time now that he tolerates a little time on his tummy. How did I get so lucky to have this boy in our family? And he is pretty darn handsome too, for that matter! Wouldn't you agree? I love how whenever he sees us in the morning he squirms and wriggles around, smiling like we are his favorite people in the world! Because, lets be honest, we are!

 We found some time to head to the Clayton Pumpkin Patch this year! The girls loved running around and seeing all the different size and colored pumpkins. I wish we could have taken them on some rides or let them play games, but it was $7 per kid, per game! Sorry girls, maybe next year.

Sophie is... busy. Always busy. The teachers in Nursery have used that very word for her. Busy. If she isn't asking me to read a book, she is doing a puzzle or building boxes or castles or towers or giving a speech while standing on the counter or piano. Or she is picking all the keys off my keyboard. Or she is throwing a tantrum for which there is no cure but herself stopping on her own time. 
Yes, busy, seems to be a good word for her. A mild description, but still accurate. haha.
She is saying a so much to us. She is making more eye contact and asking for things. She is repeating so many words and is far beyond the "average" amount of words that most kids her age have. She doesn't always want to use them. She is one super focused little girl when she sets her mind to a task and nothing interrupts her. We have been trying to keep her challenged but she is one smart girl and can do any puzzle we give her!
And of course, like any little almost 2 year old, she is just curious about things around her. Like the huge glass vase at TJ Maxx. She just had to touch it and leave a nice sparkly mess for the store employees to clean up. I can still hear the low hum from the "Oooooo"'s that echoed around the store as it hit the floor.
Sophie loves music and asks to listen to Orla Fallon every night before bed. I think its funny she loves a certain singer right now. Isle of Innisfree live concert on Youtube is her favorite.

 Sydney babe is really becoming a little girl. She loves My Little Pony toys and singing and coloring and is well on her way to finishing her 100 piece puzzle on her own! She is enjoying doing worksheets in her Brain Quest book for Pre-K. She is reading The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe with Gabe at nights now and is soo excited for when she gets to see the movie!! Some of her favorite things to do are go to the park, go to the Library and pick out some book, and go to Trader Joe's and push her own little shopping cart! She in constantly asking us what things are, how they work, and what things are for. She is such a good helper when it comes to Jonathan. Most of the time. I am so very glad she is willing to go get diapers and wipes for me as I'm holding a baby with a eeky dirty diaper, sing songs to Jonathan while I am getting something cleaned up and Jonathan is crying. Or helping Sophie with her toys or singing and reading with her. They have started to like sitting on the stairs, halfway up to read their books together. She wants to play the harp and the bagpipes when she is older. I think the Irish Folk music we listen to all the time has inspired that. At least she didn't pick the Bassoon.
Gabe is working harder than ever. I always feel guilty about the long hours that he has to take some days. He is enjoying the work though. He is doing Home Health visits 3-5 times a week so that usually means he is doing an extra hour or two of work on top of his normal school hour work days. And maybe a once a month hour or two at a skilled nursing facility. He had a patient last month that couldn't speak except with a device he put up to his throat and the patient just couldn't produce a sound. For over a month he hadn't said a word and at Gabe's first visit with him he spoke! The guy was soo happy. Gabe felt really great he was able to help someone. Gabe is also pumping iron at the gym! haha. He is doing the workout that Henry Cavill did to get in shape for the role of SuperMan in Man of Steel. Lets just say Gabe is succeeding. He can't wait for the "mass gain" phase because then he needs to eat 5000 calories a day and with the holidays coming up, that won't be a problem!

Lets see, what have I been up to? Well, I took these pictures here ^, haha. Other than that, my attention is solely spent on these three cute kids. I think I get a shower every other day now. Some days I lose track. I just look forward to the day we can take the kids out of the house without one of them crying after 15 minutes. A well planned trip can quickly turn into "Why did we even bother leaving the house" kind of days. I'll have to write more when I feel less like a robot. Makeup? whats that?

Aug 28, 2013

Easier

It's getting a little easier. Day by day.  Just a little easier to deal with.  Some days I can see myself going completely backwards and the process starts alk over again.  But its good to say that most days, I'm getting the hang of things.  I'm getting more done.  I'm finally calming down more during the days when things don't go as planned. It's getting a little bit easier.

Three kids, ages 3 and under, is the hardest thing I have ever done in MY LIFE.

I have to tell myself that I don't care about a lot of things anymore. When I'm feeding Jonathan and the girls are making a huge mess that I can't go stop then from doing.  Or I'm taking a quick 5 minute shower and Jonathan wakes up 2 minutes into it. Or Sophie is climbing into the piano to give a speech, or Sydney colors with her crayons, tears all the paper off them and leaves it on the floor,  piece by piece.  I have had to teach myself that it doesn't matter and to not get upset.  Its not worth getting mad about things I can't stop right away because I'm busy with one of the other kids. Of course I care about many things,  but these small annoyances, I havee had to let go. I can't always have a clean house.  Some days,  its just going to smell like pee in one room or another. And febreeze ain't going to cover it up. Some days the girls are going to just fight and fight and fight and all I can do is time out after time out after time out. They, not catching on that time out is supposed to teach them to STOP!
But then there are some days that Jonathan takes loong naps. Some days that I can actually get the dishes all done in one day.  Some nights I actually feel rested after.  Some days that I actually cook... something. Some days that I have time to just sit with me girls and read them stories. Those days are far and few between at the moment, but its getting easier.

It's getting easier.

Baby steps.

Aug 14, 2013

2 Month Checkup

Jonathan had his 2 month check checkup this morning and he is sure growing fast!  His measurements are:
Height: 24 1/2 inches long
Head: 16 inches
Weight: 13 lbs 8 oz

This kid loves to eat and I am loving breastfeeding!  I am so glad it had been working so well for me this third time around. Seriously, I think it didn't work with Sydney and Sophie because the supposed professionals at the hospital pressured and pushed and told me all the wrong things. Not very good coaches in my opinion. Babies will eat when they want to eat.  No reason to 'keep a record' And make sure they 'eat ontime'. by going with his queues, it was a success this time! Thanks for the advice,  Paula!
Jonathan smiles all the time and loves ti have songs sung to him.  He loves patty cake and peekaboo. He coos back at me when I talk to him.  He is just adorable and somewhat easier than Sydney and Sophie were as infants,  if that's possible. I'm glad I have super mellow babies.

Aug 5, 2013

New Camera

I am part of several Swap and Sale groups on facebook, where people can post things that they have that they want to sell or give away for free. They can be in good condition, or excellent condition, or new. There are many terms and abbreviations that go along with what you post; EUC (excellent used condtion), GUC (good used condition), NIB (new in box), PPU (pending pickup), etc. You post a picture of the item you want to sell, the info on it, and how much you are selling it for, or free. The way you show interest is by commented "interested" on the picture and if several people are insterested, the seller goes in order of those interested. So if the first person passes, it is then offered to the next interested person.
I have sold a double stroller on the site, since getting our "new" one from a friend who was getting rid of theirs.
About a month ago this lady was selling her camera for $50. It had been posted several hours earlier and no one had posted that they were interested in it yet. So I looked up the model and make of the camera and it was a fairly good camera. Selling brand new for anywhere between $300-$350. Not a bad beginners camera for someone like me who wants to know more about photo taking.
I posted I was interested and asked if she would take $40. She said she would and my brother picked it up for me since he lived closer to the seller than I did.
I have been trying the camera out on several occasions and I am having a ton of fun with it. Some of my pictures are really good I think, others okay and some not so great, but I am learning! Here are some that I think are good enough to post!
 playing at the cousins' house...






 little feet... trying out the settings on the camera...
 fun at the park!


 
blowin' raspberries...







 Celia went through the temple! Yay!


 that birthday cake was pretty good...

 a little frustrated at the toy...

Jun 24, 2013

Jonathan Michael Keogan

Jonathan is here!

Jonathan Michael Keogan came at 12:03pm on June 13th, 2013! He weighed 7 lbs 14oz, and was 20 1/2 inches long.
We went in to John Muir Hospital at 7:30am, actually meeting my OB in the parking lot as we arrived and were heading towards the hospital doors. I absolutely love my OB. She is so friendly and knows what she is doing.
I was admitted by 8am and they started me on a little Pitocin around 8:30. They broke my water around 8:45 and I was already getting an epidural by 10:45. An hour later, they were getting things ready for delivery and at 12 they had me push. And that was it! haha. short and sweet, no pain, no struggle. Just one little push and Jonathan was here! We decided on his name while I was in labor and stuck with it. I love it. My little Jonathan. I have called him Jon a couple times, but we aren't too fond of Jonny, so that probably wont be one of his nicknames. Although we'll see is Gabraham is. ;)
He is absolutely perfect!
I had a bit of bleeding, so they gave me more Pitocin that night. Thanks night nurse for doing that and allowing me to stay awake for another four hours feeling like I was in labor all over again. Plus, she completely blew my IV vein after the pitocin had gone through. I still have a bruise, 11 days later on my arm.
The pediatrician on call that day came and checked Jonathan out, and it was our former Ped doctor! I was soo glad to see her, so we sat and chatted for a little while! (She had left her practice to spend more time at home with her kids, and does a week on call for the hospital every two weeks. I wish she hadn't left, but it was great to see her). She said Jonathan looked perfect and that she only had a 24 hour rule for newborns who look great to stay, so I asked my OB if I could go too. She said I looked fine and that I could go as well.
We headed home around 5 on the 14th and I was soo glad to be out of that hospital bed. I'll tell ya, your bum can only take soo much sitting in those beds before you start to wonder if you have a bum anymore.
Jonathan had been doing soo well! He eats really well, and today at his checkup he has regained his birth weight! 11 days! I'm feeling pretty proud. Nursing hasn't been the easiest thing for me in the past, but it looks as if it is going to work great this time! That's my boy!!
We took the girls to the park a couple days ago and Jonathan came with, to get a little sun here and there to help with his jaundice. Here we are at the park!

 Here he is so cute and asleep!

 Oh, and Sydney loved going to the pool, even if it was for 5 minutes...
 My cute boy!
 And here is Daddy, getting a much deserved nap after work!
Things have been going so well, and I have actually been getting some sleep. Jonathan likes to sleep on someone at night, so I am usually down on the couch with him where its cooler, while Gabe is upstairs so he can help the girls if they wake up during the night. Hopefully soon we will make a transition to wear Jonathan will like his port a crib, but he loves to take naps in his carseat during the day, so maybe we'll start with that, so I can sleep in my own bed as well. But for now, the couch is mighty comfy and I am getting sleep, which is what matters to me right now. I hate being sleep deprived and sometimes acting like a crazy woman during the day. Seriously, I'm sure all you moms out there know what its like to just sit back and wonder where your head went sometimes because you literally become a crazy person when you don't get enough sleep.

The girls love to look at Jonathan and are pretty well behaved when I am feeding him and they are independently playing nearby. All in all, its been pretty smooth and I am so glad Gabe had this past week off to be here with us and help. Tomorrow he starts back to full days of work and I am somewhat dreading it, but also excited, at the moment, for the challenge.